He dating multiple girls
Maybe this is the reason why you’re reading this blog, and it’s your dream to live this kind of lifestyle…or maybe you just want to sow your wild oats for a while before settling down with the right girl.Some think this kind of behavior might hurt my chances because "wouldn't she maybe be more interested in me if she saw me getting along so well with other girls? I'm optimistic that if two people are a good match for each other, the goodness of that chemistry will render all of these "little mind games" irrelevant as they just have an honest conversation and end up with that introductory obsession for each other. ;)The disclaimer to all of this is that I don't consider myself a "casual dater" and don't really think that would be healthy for me - I'd rather be in a more meaningful relationship that has at least some chance to last forever, or else none at all.So, that preference clearly influences all my views above.Again, the commute isn’t great so it’s hard to see her frequently, although I did enjoy hanging out with her.She told me on our second date that she is still a virgin which I’m fine with. I was trying to be very respectful of where she’s at in life. I told her honestly I wasn’t sure, but it was something we could sort out after I came back from a family vacation I was about to go on. She told me that she felt like I had made her a back-up option, and because of my small social circle it had gotten back to her that she was not the only person I was seeing.At the same time, I hope not to make her wonder about me from my behavior (e.g., when in the "girl I'm pursuing's" presence, not staring at other girls, not putting my arm around other girls even if theyre just friends, etc.).
If you’re a red-blooded male, you can probably relate – there are certainly worse situations to find yourself in than hooking up with a wide variety of gorgeous women! Somehow he always seems to end up in bed with ALL the beautiful women he meets…no matter if they’re his side kicks or if they work for the bad guys. I remember a time when I didn’t know how to date multiple women and didn’t think this kind of life would ever be possible for ME…Either way, I’m here to tell you that it is more than Hollywood fiction and very possible.That doesn’t mean it’s as easy as it looks on the big screen though, there are a couple of hurdles you need to take – and this article will walk you through them.
Before the vacation, I went out with another girl, and had a third girl ask me out although no definitive plans were made. It seemed fairly new in getting to know each other to declare that she was my girlfriend.