Handling rejection in dating
Dealing with a break up or a rejection has to be learnt on your own experiences.
Friends are definitely there to help but first you have to show the willingness to come out of the rejection trauma.
May be you were on your first, second or third date and you were expecting an emphatic yes from your date, but however, were shocked to know that your date is not ready for the relationship and he/she is giving all possible reasons just to say you a clear ‘No’.
You both have parted your ways but the mental anguish of rejection is taking a heavy toll on your mind.
They are sometimes described as “high maintenance” friends because they are so difficult to reassure. If I had been asked to describe him in one word, I would have said poised.
But in certain circumstances a possible rejection is usually an active concern for everyone: 1. I lost track of him during the years we went to different medical schools, but then we interned together.
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So happy I finally responded and kept talking to him (even though I thought he was way out of my league).Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.Hi again Felanie, Thats true-- more good insights- maybe you should be a sociologist :) I am trying harder to learn to isolate my emotions -especially after sexual intimacy and being rejected by the 4th or 5th date...He was married by that time to an attractive and very bright woman.We socialized briefly, only to lose track of each other once again--and then, years later, once again come to know each other by working together briefly in a professional setting. He was running a large institution in New York City. “It’s my separation mustache.” He explained to me when I looked at him quizzically that he and his wife had separated. Then, after a moment, he grabbed my arm and pulled me into a corner of the room. “Do you remember when you were sixteen or seventeen and you were afraid to ask a girl out because she might refuse? ” he said, grabbing both of my lapels and shaking me.
Anyone who enters the dating world is bound to encounter rejection.